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#SPEAKOUT: Columnist reflects on self-help book

By Danielle Sheally

One of the most despised books at Floyd Central by far is the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. I can understand why students feel this way, but if they actually read in detail I feel like the response would be different.

The career information class in which we read this book is required for every FC student. The 7 Habits book is actually stemmed from a book the author’s father wrote called The 7 Habits of the Highly Effective Adult. I don’t know about the adult version but, in the teen version it covers things from being the best person we can be, to what we can do if we’ve been in an abusive relationship. The books passages aren’t very long but if we get bored with that there’s always pictures or quotes from people on every page. What makes this book so effective, is that it gives personal accounts from people who are going through a certain situation in each section. This helps us feel like we’re not the only ones going through a certain problem.

Even though this book is required at Floyd Central in taking this class, students learn how to take a rough situation and turn it into a positive experience. Also, this books helps teach time management and gives us tools towards managing out time successfully throughout life. The book gives us suggestions like making charts so we can see how much time we’re spending on things throughout the day. He suggests to us to get the important stuff out of the way first so we can do the things we want to do later in the day. With this book I’ve been able to implement several of the tools he teaches into my life.

The 7 Habits have taught me to get over things I can’t control in my life. When I am in control I need to find something like my reaction to problems or how I do in school to focus on. Something that really affected me was when he talked about the differences between proactive and reactive people. I learned that a proactive person thinks through problems and goes after what they want. A reactive person never thinks ahead and waits for things to happen to them (I’m about 80 percent proactive and 20 percent reactive).

So, after you hear the mixture of negative and positive about this book, I challenge you to see what side you’re on.

 

#SPEAKOUT: Columnists shares lessons learned from sibling

By Danielle Sheally

There comes a time in everyone’s life when a best friend or sibling backs down their driveway to start the next chapter in the journey of life and, until they’re gone we don’t realize how much they really affected our lives. My brother Willie always connected with people well. He was the person that automatically made a awkward situation feel totally comfortable and, for the class of 2013 he was definitely one of the most recognized people.

As I look back on our time together, two things my brother taught me that are imporant are: stay confident in any situation, and always form some kind of relationship with the people in our lives.

For me, staying confident in certain situations helps me rationalize with the issue at hand. For example, if I have to do the project that involves public speaking I always try to get interested in some aspect of the topic. That way the project is easier to talk about. If it something I’m really not interested in though I always try to crack a couple jokes related to the topic so it allows the crowd and I to become more relaxed.

Forming relationships with teachers and colleagues is something that I always try to do, because it may come to help when I least expect it. The relationship also help me know what kind of personality my teacher of friend has so, if I want say something I know whether to refrain from saying it or not. It’s always good to have if you just want to blow off steam.

 

So, my brother may not realize it right now but, he’s actually really helped me in my life.

#SPEAKOUT: Hunt for what you’re proud of

By Danielle Shealy

Hunting for the perfect holiday bird is easy when you’re hunting ground is a big store with everything you need.

During Thanksgiving, we come together as different families celebrating what we are thankful for.  For me, thankfulness isn’t about who got you what. It isn’t about about who decorated the house the best. Those things are nice, but thankfulness should be about having someone or something in our life that makes everything better, even if we’re having a bad day.

I am thankful for so many things in my life.  I am thankful that I live in a country where I can get a free education. I appreciate that I can choose any job I want and not have to be told no because I have a disability or that I will get the beneifits I need when I turn 18. I appreciate that I have people in my life that keep me grounded and try to keep me on the right path.

Something that I am most thankful for is that I am able to speak my own mind.  So many children in my position don’t have the opportunity.  It hurts me to see that look in their eyes and how they want to communicate, but they can’t.  I am thankful that I can speak so eloquently that I am able to affect someone by just sharing my thoughts.

I am thankful that most of the time I am happy in my own skin.  I am thankful that I am able to go to bed at night and not wander where my next meal will come from.  I am thankful that people believe in me and will always be there to support me.  I am thankful for my friends that pick me up on the worst days and bring me back to reality.

I hope you are able to find a hunting ground as good as mine.

#SPEAKOUT: Looking at both sides of the mirror

By Danielle Sheally

Why as a society do we judge people?  Maybe we judge because we’re so insecure. Think about it for a minute. Maybe we won’t wear a certain shirt that we love because we’ll get made fun of. Or possibly, we won’t hang out with a group of people because staring eyes know what that group’s values are. Better yet, the insecurity takes such a hold on the way we act we won’t stand up for what is right. We don’t want to stand alone against millions with a different view from ours.

I believe that judging others is at its worst point among high school students. We think this because when we are walking down the hallway and we see someone with really expensive clothes or inexpensive clothes, we either think that they’re either really wealthy or a very frugal person. The same can also be said about someone who is very good academically and someone who struggles in school. We assume that one is very knowledgeable while the other person is not.

It’s evident that we all judge, but what are we going to do to change it?

#SPEAKOUT: Columnist overcomes the hurdles of every day life

By Danielle Shealy

So, imagine a life where your feet hardly ever touch the floor.

Imagine a life where all others have to do is pull a switch to walk. That’s something that a lot of people don’t go through, but I do. This is the life that I have to deal with every day. Now, I know people may see me zooming around the hallway, but can students and staff identify what my face looks like?  Do I wear glasses?  What color is my hair?  What does my laugh sound like?  Many people don’t realize that I am more than just struggles. One may think that my life is just having other people do things for me, but it is much more. I am able to advocate for those people like me who can’t speak up for themselves.

My biggest point of writing this is for others to watch how they judge me by just my appearance alone. People need to be aware that it’s fine to talk to me even though I am different from them.  Please just embrace me as an individual like everyone else. Sometimes people try to do too much for me and it upsets me because I know I can do more than they are letting me do.

Something to know about me is that I enjoy writing.  I stay home a lot on the weekends and make up super amazing stories.  I enjoy getting sucked into reality television.  I don’t like scary movies but I love comedies and “little kid” movies.  I am very sarcastic and I like to joke around all of the time.

So, as one can tell, just because I’m in a wheelchair doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy the same things as other teenagers do.  I enjoy the good life.

What I have told you about is something that affects me every day.  It is my life, and I wanted to share it with others.