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Writer requests respect

By Darian Eswine

Graphic by Summer Haynes

Chivalry: courteous behavior, that of a man towards a woman.

Simple definition. Theoretically it would be simple enough to carry out this behavior. Courteousness should not be hard. It’s just a boy being nice to a girl which to me sounds like a natural act; however, a chivalrous man is now a dying breed.

These days, a lot of women want to do everything for themselves. I still believe you can take care of yourself and let the man be the man.

I am not a feminist and I want to be taken care of in certain ways. I want my knight in shining armor, I want to be saved from the tower, and I want to ride off into the seemingly endless sunset after romantically being saved from an unrealistically perilous situation.

Although slightly cheesy, it provides me with the most satisfying end to my life story. Now my message to boys out there is: you are brutally annihilating my dream. I’m speaking generally here; not every single boy is impolite to women, but the numbers do seem to be increasing.

I cannot provide a reason for the dwindling acts of chivalry being seen in the school hallways and in the world, but I can provide a few simple tips, other than the basic opening doors and pulling chairs out, to transform you into the Prince Charming every man should be.

1) Be buff, carry stuff

Books are just the beginning to this courteous act. A guy can carry books, backpacks, and food. Yes, food. If a girl is at a restaurant and she gets take out, it would be appropriate for the man to go up and get the order even if it’s not his order. No, I don’t mean some random guy at McDonalds should go get the girl’s food. This only applies to girls who are with the guy at the restaurant. A man can carry shopping bags, heavy boxes, and the list goes on and on. It is a simple act that could brighten the day.

2) Put a cork in it

Inappropriate language is just that: inappropriate. It does not belong around a girl. I could say so much more on this topic. Curse words, slang, sexual references, and sexist jokes all are to be kept out of earshot of women, and preferably never said…at all. Girls should have clean mouths as well, but that is another problem for another day. Think about what you say before you say it and the world of men will be a better place.

3) Walk this way

This is the number one most forgotten rule of chivalry. It dates back to the horse and buggy age where men walked on the side of the road closest to the buggies. That way, if a wheel splashed a puddle or a horse went rabid, the male would be on the protective side of the woman. This applies to modern times as well. Some women might not even recognize this, but I do. It makes me have a much higher opinion of the man if he moves purposefully to put himself in between me and the cars.

For 18 years I have watched my dad treat my mom with these basic courtesies. I fully expect my male friends, boyfriends, and future husband to treat me with the same respect.

Men were meant to take care of women and I am nothing if not conventional. These three tips coupled with basic good manners will show you are a respectful, courteous gentleman and will most definitely help you win your princess.

Actor Josh Dallas offers advice to FC thespians

By Darian Eswine and Marah Harbison

FC theater students received a few welcome tips of advice from none other than Prince Charming.

New Albany graduate Josh Dallas, star of “Thor” and the upcoming ABC series “Once Upon A Time,” visited FC on Oct. 11 to talk about acting with director Chris Bundy’s theater classes.

Dallas began acting at an early age by making small appearances in the Weber School of Dance recitals, where his mother taught.

“I would be like a pink elephant or a Prince Charming, something random, whatever they needed me for,” said Dallas.

He continued acting in middle school and high school and pursued his dream.

“I was in ‘Oliver,’ ‘The Boyfriend,’ ‘West Side Story,’ ‘Crazy for You’…”

These were the joint productions New Albany performed with FC. As he said, “Floyd Central was like my second home. I loved performing here.”

He decided acting was his passion because it gives him freedom.

“It’s also always pretty kick ass to throw swords around and ride horses and stuff,” Dallas said, laughing.

In his junior year of high school, Dallas acted in “Pirates of Penzance,” which was taken to the International Thespian Festival. After auditioning at the festival for scholarships, he received the Sarah Exley Scholarship. The scholarship is given to one American every three years and provides the opportunity to study acting at Mountview Conservatoire for Performing Arts in London, England.

“I took the offer and ran with it. It was the time of my life,” he said.

Dallas said he sometimes feels he missed out on the American college experience; however, he credits his education for where he is now so he would not change his experiences for anything.

“My education and experiences shaped me into who I am now. I met people and I guess they recognized something in me and pushed me in that direction.”

Just as the New Albany-Floyd County School Corporation puts emphasis on the arts, Dallas agreed that the arts are essential to developing a young mind.

“It is so important because it helps you grow and helps you become aware of what’s around you.”

He credited the arts as invaluable and said he is grateful for everything he achieved and everyone he met while going through the system.

“There is an extraordinary program here [NAFCS] and a very rare and special performing arts program. People here are passionate about what they do.”

Of course, high school theater is different from the professional world. Dallas said his breakthrough role was “Thor,” where he starred alongside Chris Hemsworth and Natalie Portman.

“A movie set is exhilarating, exciting, terrifying, joyful; it’s everything.”

With fame comes limelight and critique, but Dallas said it just comes with the territory.

“[Criticism] It’s hard, but you know what’s true and the people around you know what’s true so you just can’t worry about it.”

Dallas said to keep grounded, a person just has to remember the truth and reality and to remember what is truly important.

“You can do TV shows, movies, talk shows, whatever…that isn’t what lasts. If all that hype is what fills you up then that’s not a healthy place to be.”

Dallas’ role models include his mother and all of his teachers he has had along the years. They grounded him and keep him grounded in home and in what he has learned. He said they push him to do more. Acting-wise, Paul Newman (“Cool Hand Luke”) is his role model.

“Paul Newman was such an incredible actor, incredible businessman, and just a good human. He was a good man and he loved what he did.”

One of Dallas’ favorite movies is “Cool Hand Luke.” Dallas joked that his favorite TV show is “Once Upon A Time,” which is an upcoming ABC series, in which he stars as Prince Charming. “Once Upon A Time” premieres Sunday, Oct. 23 at 8/7c. As for other projects, Dallas starred in “Five,” which is a made-for-TV movie profiling different lives affected by breast cancer. He will also be starring in a 2012 film titled “Red Tails” about war pilots.

“I hope I can just continue acting and doing what I love and keep challenging and changing myself,” he said.

After accomplishing so much in his short career, Dallas has one piece of advice for young aspiring actors.

“Be ready for tough times. But if it’s in your heart, then you’ve got to follow it through with confidence and keep following your dream.”

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FC honored at Indiana Statehouse

On Wednesday, March 2, over 40 FC  journalism and government students attended the 5th annual First Amendment Symposium at the Indiana State house sponsored by the Indiana High School Press Association.

Principal Louie Jensen was awarded IHSPA Administrator of the Year for his support of FC journalism and the First Amendment.

Senior Carmen Huff was a finalist for Indiana Student Journalist of the Year.

Junior Jill Moore won third place prize in the poster contest promoting the First Amendment.

Sophomore Grace Runkel won first place in the essay contest promoting the First Amendment.

Senior Jon Ferguson, President of the IHSPA student board, was one of six Indiana journalism students selected to speak about the First Amendment at the event last Wednesday.

From India with love

Story, photos and captions by Darian Eswine, News co-editor.

The story of Thomas Kunnath

I was born in the backward districts of Kerala. My parents were poor farmers and I was one of six children. Because we were poor, I would work from 7 or 8 in the morning to very late at night; out in the farm mainly plowing oxen. I would work in the field from8 a.m. to 10 a.m. and then quickly bathe in the river, then go to school. When I got home from school I would go back to work. I was an ordinary boy with average intelligence. Somehow I got a promotion to the next grade and the next. One day an American missionary was in the neighborhood and he stayed for a while. He used to give milk to poor children living near. I received some one day. After that I would wait in half clad dress with a pot, waiting fro his milk. From then on whenever I found a white-skinned person, it would remind me of milk. Still even after 50 years, milk is the most delicious ting. Then I started dreaming. I kept a dream in my heart that one day I would go to the U.S. It was an impossible dream. Time went on. I had a desire to learn English. In my high school education I passed with the lowest grade, My dream haunted me. From high school, I went on to college study and I miserably failed. I received a zero percent math. I passed with minimum marks for higher studies. And I studied for my bachelor’s degree in Physics. The moment I joined for higher studies I made the decision that I would pass with a high mark. All of my fellow students were superior in every way. I was the most unnoticed and insignificant guy in the class. I worked hard and tried my best to improve my English. I completed my bachelor’s degree in three years and I passed my exam with the highest mark in Physics; a 100 percent in math. I was the first student in the history of the school to receive that mark. I worked at a government job for four years and I did not enjoy it. I was bored. I came back home after leaving my job and met my wife. We had an arranged marriage. Lizzie is my wife. We had three daughters; Nitza, Dawna, and Janeana. One day, American missionaries cam to visit Kerala. I met two of them, Tom Franklin and Amy Ruff. They let me travel with them. I interpreted their talks to their satisfaction. These were the most joyous days of my life, to be with Americans. Every year they came to Kerala. In 2005, Tom and Amy asked me to visit the U.S. There are no words to describe how I felt. I didn’t know how to respond. I thought it was a practical joke, but they meant it. Everything went smoothly with my passport and visa. I sat in the airplane with tears in my eyes. It was the unbelievable fulfillment of my impossible dream. One morning I landed in New York, confounded. Tom, Amy, Donna; all of my American friends were there to welcome me to America. Each moment in the U.S. was considered a fulfillment of my long desired wild dream. The moral of my life story is if you keep a dream alive in your heart and for the fulfillment of it, you can fulfill it no matter how big that dream is.[slideshow]